James A. McLaughlin, Jr.
Born: 01/31/1937
Died: 10/08/2017
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James A. McLaughlin, Jr.

James Aloysius McLaughlin, Jr. of Jersey City and Spring Lake Heights, New Jersey passed away on Sunday, October 8, 2017.  He was 80.
A graduate of Saint Peter’s Prep and the University of Notre Dame, Jim was the owner and operator of McLaughlin Funeral Home in Jersey City.  While at Notre Dame, he was introduced to Mary Ellen Waldron, the two fell in love and married on May 21, 1960.   
A true native son of Jersey City, Jim was devoted to the city he loved so well and exemplified a life dedicated to public service.    In addition to being a Councilman in Ward B of Jersey City, he served as a Trustee and President of Boys and Girls Clubs of Hudson County, Chair of Saint Peter’s College Board of Regents, Commissioner and Chair of Jersey City Redevelopment Agency, Trustee of Saint Peter’s Prep, Commissioner of Jersey City Parking Authority, Chair of Hudson County Economic Development Corporation, Board Member of North Jersey Transportation Planning Authority, Member of Hudson Legal Ethics Committee, Trustee of Liberty HealthCare and Chairman of Jersey City Medical Center, where he spearheaded the building of the new Medical Center located on Grand Street.  
Even though Jim gave so much of himself to the city he loved, his greatest achievement was his family.  He loved and adored his wife Mary Ellen, his four daughters and his 11 grandchildren above all else, delighting in their successes and happiness.  He will be missed by all.
Jim was predeceased by his beautiful bride Mary Ellen.  He is survived by his daughters, Maureen Byrne, Claire Juliana, Megan Becht and Maryellen McLaughlin; sons-in-law Tom Byrne, David Juliana, Dan Becht and Sean Flannery; grandchildren, Daniel, Conor, Tyler, Ryan, Fiona, Kiersten, Emma, Maeve, Gabriella, Camille and Jack; sisters, Jane Dalton and Nancy Buckman and her husband James Buckman and many nieces, nephews, grandnieces, grandnephews and cousins, all of whom he loved.

Visitation will be at McLaughlin Funeral Home, 625 Pavonia Avenue, Jersey City, NJ on Tuesday, and Wednesday from 5:00- 8:00pm.  Relatives and friends may assemble at the funeral home on Thursday October 12, 2017 at  10AM prior to the Mass of Christian Burial at St. Aloysius Church, 691 West Side Avenue, Jersey City at 11:00AM.  Interment follows at Holy Name Cemetery, Jersey City.  In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory to the Jersey City Medical Center Foundation, 265 Grand Street, Jersey City, NJ  07302 or Saint Peter’s Prep 144 Grand Street, Jersey City, 07302 would be appreciated.

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Dear Mary Ellen, With respect & admiration for your Father. His reputation precedes him as a pillar to the community. May God bless & comfort you all at this time. With respect and love, Lou Squitieri
Lou Squitieri
Dear McLaughlin family, What sad news to learn of Jim's death. He and your mom were great friends through NSM, and some 5 years ago your dad stopped to visit me in Durham while on a golf trip. I was so honored. Jim was among our best and brightest in funeral service, to say nothing of such stellar dedication to his community. He was a gentleman with courtly manners, a "regular guy" and God knows, FUNNY as they come! All of us who admired Jimmy are better and richer in spirit through his sterling example as a man of family, faith and character. Thanks be to God for the life and gift of Jim McLaughlin, now rejoined with sweet Mary Ellen.....within the gentle embrace of the Good Shepherd. Grace and peace be unto you, his dear family. Mark Higgins, Durham, NC
Mark Higgins
Susan and I send our regrets. It was great knowing and working with Jim. His service to many community organizations was outstanding.
Mark Rabson
To the McLaughlin family from the Coyle family our prayers and thoughts are with you. Almost all of my family,from my father in 1956 to my Mom in 2011 have been waked in Mclaughlin Funeral home. James always treated us as family and made tough times go smoothly. He was a great man and will be deeply missed.
Ken Coyle
Jim was a natural leader who made his mark in Jersey City in so many ways. His volunteer work to enhance the healthcare for all in Jersey City led to a the Development and Construction new Hospital : The Jersey City Medical Center in which the Board Room is dedicated in honor of his service. He left Jersey City better than he found it. The true mark of a successful life. My condolences to the entire family for your loss.
Brett Harwood
When I think about good people who always lended a hand to help anyone no matter what your race, religion,or political preference, the person that comes to mine is Jim McLaughlin. Jim was a good friend to me who always helped me when I asked for it. He focused all his life on his family and community service. Jimmy will be missed by all who knew him and the one's who never met him, you missed meeting a quality Guy.
Steven Ross
Mary Ellen, So sorry to hear of your fathers passing !!! You were so helpful during my mom's passing and we had such a great and long talk . Sending my prayers and love to you and your family at this sad time ????????????
Elaine Applebaum
So very sorry for your loss. Your Dad and you are all in my thoughts and Prayers. Love and Prayers Margaret Steinhauser
Margaret Steinhauser
Our heartfelt condolences, Maryellen, to you and your family. They don't come any finer than your father. A true gentleman and leader of the people. I'm sure he was very proud of you and his wonderful family. His was a life well lived.
Steve Dnistrian
Walter and Mary Calhou
McLaughlin Family and Friends: Both Karen and I were saddened to hear of Jim's passing. He was one of those gentle souls who has left a void in this world. We will always remember his quick wit and warm smile. He was one of the "great ones" that you never forget. Karen & Ed Rajsteter
Ed & Karen Rajsteter
I have many fond memories of your Mom and Dad in the years I served at St. John the Baptist on Kennedy Blvd. I will not be able to attend the wake or Funeral Mass. I will offer the Mass for your Father's repose and assure all your family of my prayers and deepest sympathy. Fr. Jim Spera
Rev. James F Spera
I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of mr. McLaughlin. In these times, comfor is much needed. Revelations 21:4 states: And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away". What a wonderful hope for the future that will be- no more death and pain will occur. I hope that you and your family are comforted by what the Bible promises. My condolences are with you and your family at this time
Dear Mary Ellen & Family: My heartfelt condolences to you and your entire family. Your Dad was a true Jersey City Legend who will be sadly missed. Jersey City has lost another great man and Heaven has gained another angel. My prayers are with you and your family.
Sean J. Gallagher
Mary Ellen and staff.. saddened by the loss of Jim "BIG MAC" McLaughlin I called him. he was good to me and my son at Prep. The funeral industry lost a legend. Buddy Hjelm and family
Edwin Buddy Hjelm
Mary Ellen, I am just learning about your father's death and I want to extend my sincere sympathy to you, your sisters and all of your family. Both your mother and father were such wonderful people and did so much for Jersey City and all of the community. I know they are missed so much by you all. You all will be in my prayers as you deal with this loss in your lives.
Jane Albert
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